Elena Shirokaya
    Elena Shirokaya

    Elena
    Shirokaya

    Psychologist · Partner to Family Offices, Investors & Boards
    12 Yrs Assessing Who to Trust With Capital

    Professional experience with:

    Boston Consulting Group
    Interogo Global Private Equity
    Altran Part of Capgemini
    DHL

    Today, as an entrepreneur, Elena's work bridges the worlds of investment, psychology and leadership.

    She is on a mission to build environments, where leaders stay whole and capital improves lives.

    01 / Capital

    Capital

    Directing capital toward solutions that improve lives

    Elena spent over a decade inside institutional private equity evaluating investment transactions, leading fund and co-investment due diligence processes.

    Over 12 years in institutional private equity, assessing nearly 100 PE and VC fund management teams for family offices and institutional investors across Europe, the US, and Asia - deciding, team by team, whether their people could be trusted with real capital.

    Over time she developed a strong interest in impact capital, particularly in areas where investment can create both financial returns and meaningful societal outcomes.

    Her focus areas include climate adaptation and energy transition, education, health systems and financial inclusion.

    Capital Experience

    $500m+

    portfolio oversights

    $100m+

    capital allocated

    15+

    PE fund advisory boards

    100+

    impact funds evaluated

    02 / Leadership

    Leadership

    Expanding leadership capacity under pressure

    After experiencing burnout in a high-pressure investment career, Elena trained formally in psychology and nervous-system science.

    Through EverVenture Consulting, she partners with family offices, investors, and boards on intergenerational transitions and cross-cultural leadership team trust.

    Intergenerational transitions that should take months often drag on for years, because the trust at the center of them was never built deep enough to hold. Elena brings the same rigor she used assessing dozens of PE and VC fund management teams - deciding, team by team, whether their people could be trusted with real capital - to closing that gap.

    Her focus is on creating environments where high performance does not require self-abandonment.

    03 / Impact

    Impact

    Strengthening the environments that shape society

    Elena believes that the quality of society depends largely on the environments leaders create and the capital they deploy.

    Her work connects leadership development and capital stewardship to ensure that financial resources contribute to long-term societal well-being.

    She is particularly passionate about initiatives that expand opportunity and improve quality of life across generations.

    04 / Research

    Research

    Human Capacity and Leadership

    At the core of Elena's work is the understanding that leadership capacity is neuro-biological.

    Leaders operating under sustained pressure often experience changes in their nervous system that affect their relational intelligence and decision making.

    The Nervous System Capacity Index™ (NSCI)

    Elena developed the Nervous System Capacity Index™ (NSCI), a framework that assesses how leaders carry pressure across four dimensions: physical bracing, emotional suppression, emotional load and recovery capacity.

    Her academic research with Arden University on the ANS reactivity and burnout among organizational leaders is preparing for journal publication.

    05 / Biography

    Biography

    Elena's work bridges the worlds of investment, psychology and leadership.

    Elena Shirokaya is an entrepreneur, leadership advisor, and impact investor with more than twenty years of experience across consulting, institutional private equity, and leadership development.

    After overseeing $500M+ in private equity portfolios and serving on multiple private equity advisory boards, she shifted her focus toward strengthening the human capacity behind major capital decisions.

    Today she works with executive teams and investors to expand leadership capacity and connect capital with solutions in climate, education, and health.

    Personal Story

    Elena grew up between instability and resilience.

    Her father struggled with alcohol, and life at home could be unpredictable. But every summer she returned to the Ukrainian countryside, where she spent months working in gardens and listening to stories from people who had survived the war and rebuilt their lives.

    It was there she learned her first lesson in leadership and legacy: people still spoke about her grandfather with respect long after he passed away.

    "How you treat people outlives any title you hold."

    Those lessons continue to shape her work today.

    In 2006, Elena immigrated to Belgium, where she met her husband Joaquin. They since, now as a family of five, lived in Belgium, the UK, Spain and now Bulgaria.

    That instability wasn't only Elena's own story - it's a pattern she watched repeat across her family, and it's what she now helps other families and leadership teams interrupt before a transition costs them the same way.

    Media

    Podcast

    Impact Investing

    Climate Investing Insights

    Impact Investing meets Environmental Innovation

    Climate Investing Insights

    Exploring the complexities of SFDR Article 9: A Deep Dive with Alder's Sustainability Officer

    Leadership via Nervous System lens

    Story to Mission Live: Nervous System 101

    Story to Mission Live: Nervous System 101

    Event by Ulrike Schulz

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    How Your Body Knows You Are In The Wrong Job

    How Your Body Knows You Are In The Wrong Job.

    Event by DEBORAH BROWN-VOLKMAN

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    Scale with Clarity:

    Why So Many High-Achieving Women Leave Corporate in Their 40s ft. Elena Shirokaya | SWC Ep. 15

    Testimonials

    "I'm so grateful for the work that we've done together. It's been life-changing."

    "Elena, through her parts work psychology-based therapy, has done miracles. She's really guided me through such a deep process of healing that no other kind of therapy has ever managed to come close to."

    "I know from personal experience that what keeps you sometimes from reaching your goals and your full potential - it's usually beliefs or identity issues that are rooted very deep in us."


    Raquel Luís

    Opera singer and mental health coach, specialist in the inner-outer voice relationship.

    Nürnberg, Germany

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    Mark Roche

    "I am pleased to offer my earnest recommendation for Elena. Her depth of experience and personal intuition bring invaluable insight to any business situation. I had the good fortune of having Elena on my LP advisory board and as a trusted investor."

    "While all of my investors have been important, Elena stands out with her rare ability to absorb and track the most minute details while maintaining a clear focus on their implications within the broader picture."

    "My business has always been extremely complicated, yet Elena consistently asks the right questions to ensure she is fully up to speed, even during periods of rapid change. Elena is both a team player and a natural leader. I have no doubt that her skills and personal traits will drive tremendous success in her current and future ventures."


    Mark Roche

    Intellectual property investor.

    Managing Partner, West U Capital.

    Dallas, USA

    Arash Raisse

    "Elena has been closely involved with Alder over many years, first as an investor representative in our funds since 2012 and later as a member of the investment committee between 2020 and 2023."

    "During that time, she has developed a deep understanding of both our investment approach and our evolution as a firm, and she has always brought a thoughtful, well-rounded perspective to discussions."

    "Elena brings a level of reflection that goes beyond the numbers. She has a genuine interest in how investment decisions connect to long-term outcomes, including sustainability and organisational dynamics."

    "It has been a pleasure working with Elena over the years. She is thoughtful, engaged, and brings a perspective that adds real value to the conversation. I would welcome the opportunity to work with her again."

    "I believe her perspective is increasingly relevant for investors and management teams operating under sustained pressure."


    Arash Raisse

    Partner, Alder, Nordic Investment firm

    Stockholm, Sweden

    Alder
    08 / Questions

    Engage with Elena

    A Guided Conversation

    Opening / Origin Story

    • 1. You've had a remarkable career journey, from institutional private equity to nervous system science. What was the moment you realized something had to change?
    • 2. You grew up in Eastern Europe, and you've spoken about learning what legacy means from people who had survived hardship. How did that shape the way you think about capital and leadership today?

    Leadership & The Nervous System

    • 3. You created the Nervous System Capacity Index™, a concept most people in finance have never heard of. Can you explain what it is and why it matters for executives?
    • 4. There's a common belief in high-performance culture that pressure is what makes great leaders. You seem to challenge that. What do you say to leaders who wear their stress as a badge of honour?
    • 5. What does burnout actually look like in a C-suite leader, and why is it so often invisible until it's too late?

    Capital & Climate

    • 6. You've overseen $500M+ in portfolio assets and sat on 15+ advisory boards. What does your private equity background bring to the conversation around climate investing that others miss?
    • 7. Through Private Equity for Climate, you're connecting family offices with climate-aligned investments. Why do you believe this is one of the most important capital allocation decisions of our time?

    Legacy

    • 8. You talk about capital not just as a financial tool, but as a vehicle for legacy. What does it mean to you to build something that outlasts you?
    • 9. You're raising three children while building a firm and conducting academic research. What does legacy look like in your own life, day to day?

    Forward-Looking

    • 10. You're planning a TEDx talk and publishing research on burnout in organizational leaders. What is the one idea you most want the world to understand about the future of leadership?
    Moments & Milestones

    Gallery

    20 Years Together

    20 Years Together

    Leadership Psychologist

    Leadership Psychologist

    Nature Lover

    Nature Lover

    Contact Elena

    For more on Elena's thought leadership, visit her LinkedIn page

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